Lol I kind of have to do one or the other. 69 can be fun... however most guys put the girl on top for 69, which does keep her from getting impaled by a cock and having things go accidentally wrong and also keeps her from getting or feeling crushed by the man above her engaging in 69. I tend to go into a "cum zone" and get distracted and forget to keep my attention on "the matter in hand."  So, if a guy is experienced enough to be able to be on top for 69, for me that's more fun. 

In some ways, I do prefer to give oral. Confidence helps. I'd like to think I'm good at head... but I feel like I'll never know because let's be honest, you guys don't want to tell ladies, "I don't want head, you're not good at it" because it would probably destroy your chances of getting laid. 

Of course, I like getting oral, I just really prefer getting oral from dudes that know how to eat a woman. For real... guys STOP EATING PUSSY LIKE THEY DO IN PORN!! For serious, lady bits are not a chew toy... don't shake your head back and forth like a goddamn mongrel. 

One of the problems I encounter with oral is when I guy starts to do something that feels good, he changes it up too quick... almost as soon as they find something that feels really good... they switch their technique and I don't even have enough time to tell them what they were doing felt good... 

Giving head is rewarding and gratifying but for women, it is not sexually satisfying in the same way. So I super hate selfish jerks that cum from oral and then won't return the favor to the lady and leave her with blue clit. Not cool. Like yes, it's gratifying to get the cum I work so hard for... but getting your cum isn't going to give me the release I need... 

I mean I must be good at giving head because I've had many men say BJ's can't make them cum and I go, "o rly...?" and they seem genuinely surprised... because even though dudes say, "I don't normally cum from head," either they don't, or they're saying it to get head 🤣 but to me, it sounds like they want sex and not head when they're like, "I can't cum from head" and they often say something along the lines of, "I've never cum that fast" or "I haven't cum from a BJ since I first got one in high school so it's been like 20 years"

Lol... I'll admit... if a guy isn't good at eating me and is boring... I'll distract them and maybe ask for a kiss or do something else instead of having to pretend like they're good at eating me... because I won't pretend and I won't tell them they're good at it if they aren't. 

I've maybe only ever encountered 3 or 4 guys that are good at eating pussy... I don't want to get into how many men have eaten me... but all dudes like to think they're good at it... and I really wish other women wouldn't simply reward and complement a guy for even trying oral because they want to stroke his ego. I won't tell them they're bad at it... but this problem can only be fixed for ALL WOMEN if us ladies speak up and help train y'all how to gently suckle and tease a clit to make a woman squirt...  

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